Bank on Love

Kristine Cucinotta Murphy

We all know there’s many types of love. We all need love that’s inevitable. God created us to love and be loved. There’s different forms and ways to love and be loved. So let’s imagine the main 3 of these different loves in our bank accounts. (Agape, Eros, Philia)

Anyone who has a bank knows you can’t make withdrawals without making deposits.

A God fearing husband and Godly wife’s first main branch is their Spiritual bank account.

There must be daily deposits to their accounts to even function, exchange and love one another God’s way.

Most men, do transactions with their physical account, since he was made flesh. Then, his emotional bank account comes last. He goes to his physical account to transfer funds to his emotional account.

Most women, do transactions with their emotional account, since she came from flesh and then her physical bank account comes last. She goes to her emotional account to transfer funds to her physical account.

Husbands, you want to keep the resources available. You are the sole provider, the bread winner, so you can make withdrawals when you need or want to. But, you have to make daily deposits to her first account in her Spiritual bank, then second emotional bank account to get to the third physical bank account. If man withholds from making deposits to her Spiritual and emotional bank accounts, he is going to have a time trying to get through the red tape and fine print of the use of her physical bank account.

Same for women, needing to make deposits to his Spiritual and physical accounts to withdrawal from his emotional bank account. As the same, if she withholds deposits to his Spiritual and flesh bank accounts, his emotional bank account closes down.

Most everyone’s emotional and physical/flesh bank accounts make a lot of transactions between each other. So, they stay pretty balanced for the most part, until all of a sudden they run out; overdrawn and left with a bunch of fees and added restrictions.

That first Spiritual bank account has to make deposits into the emotional and physical accounts to support them or soon all of the bank accounts will be empty.

Any lack of need from one account will be the account that sends out all the notices, and trying to charge overdrawn fees and restrictions. And, that bank shuts down all the other banks until it gets the deposit it needs. A shutdown.

These three main bank accounts are those THREE strands, that works as one strong CORD. A promise God made; COVENANT with man.

God is the Spiritual banker.
Man is the physical banker.
Woman is the emotional banker.“

Though as one flesh, one mind, one Spirit, we have accounts in them all. Don’t stop the flow of currency and if one of your accounts is getting low or you’re in a Shutdown, seek from the great banker himself. No one is greater than his master.

Luke 12:31-32
But rather seek ye the kingdom of God; and all these things shall be added unto you.
Fear not, little flock; for it is your Father’s good pleasure to give you the kingdom.

We must make every transaction of all of our accounts through our main branch of our Spiritual bank account.

Romans 8:6-8
For to be carnally minded is death; but to be spiritually minded is life and peace.

7 Because the carnal mind is enmity against God: for it is not subject to the law of God, neither indeed can be.

8 So then they that are in the flesh cannot please God.

Our main bank (vine) of our Spiritual account:

John 15:2-13
Every branch in me that beareth not fruit he taketh away: and every branch that beareth fruit, he purgeth it, that it may bring forth more fruit.

3 Now ye are clean through the word which I have spoken unto you.

4 Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit of itself, except it abide in the vine; no more can ye, except ye abide in me.

5 I am the vine, ye are the branches: He that abideth in me, and I in him, the same bringeth forth much fruit: for without me ye can do nothing.

6 If a man abide not in me, he is cast forth as a branch, and is withered; and men gather them, and cast them into the fire, and they are burned.

7 If ye abide in me, and my words abide in you, ye shall ask what ye will, and it shall be done unto you.

8 Herein is my Father glorified, that ye bear much fruit; so shall ye be my disciples.

9 As the Father hath loved me, so have I loved you: continue ye in my love.

10 If ye keep my commandments, ye shall abide in my love; even as I have kept my Father’s commandments, and abide in his love.

11 These things have I spoken unto you, that my joy might remain in you, and that your joy might be full.

12 This is my commandment, That ye love one another, as I have loved you.

13 Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.