Jonelle Maxwell

Have you ever observed areas in your life that seemly kept repeating itself? If we look over our lives we will see at least one area that we just can’t seen to break. One area I will discuss is relationship patterns that many do not like to talk about, however, it is alive a well here on planet earth.

Years ago before God revealed to me that I have the anointing to counsel in relationships, I started to pay attention to how men and women both would hop from relationship to the next. They will not give themselves enough time to receive deliverance and healing to get over the last person.

They would carry baggage after baggage about what happened to them in the last relationship into each new relationship they would get into.

Before you know it, if the last relationship ended poorly, the new person received the backlash. This can be very dangerous. Especially if the person suffered a trauma experience such as physical or mental abuse.

I have known, in some situations, the innocent person do not make it out alive.

The rage built up in the other person over the years become uncontrollable and unable to surpress any longer. The person is a time bomb needing only one thing that remind them of their past relationship to explode. The person see images that have been stored in their memory therefore creating triggers.

Triggers are thoae buttons that causes them to react in rage or anger.

When people do not receive the counseling along with the Word of God they need it will become patterns.

I believe God want to break the patterns in our lives so that we will truly be free. Especially, in our relationship with Him. In this hour, God is bring forth Kingdom marriages and counseling in deliverance and healing is much needed. God does not want us carrying baggage of the past into our marriages, new relationships, and our business connections.

We must truly be honest with ourselves and with God and ask Him to break any pattern that He reveals in us so that we can move on in total freedom from patterns.


And be not conformed to this world, but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect will of God.”

Romans 12:2 KJV

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