Kristine Cucinotta Murphy
He takes a vow to protect and provide,
His controlling abusive ways shows the fruit, he lied.
Yet, she is held captive and made to believe,
All the responsibility is on her until she obtains courage to leave.
None to help, none to support,
She falls to her face in Yahuah’s court.
Yahuah tells her, “Do not fear, I have set you free,
Because he broke my commandments, just obey me.
I know you made a vow to keep covenant and serve him well,
But, because of his behavior and unrepentance, I have delivered you out of this hell.
Because none will hold him accountable, I will,
Just follow me and let your heart and mind remain still.”
Luke 9:60 – But He said to him, “Allow the dead to bury their own dead; but as for you, go and proclaim everywhere the kingdom of God.
A controlling and abusive husband is breaking Yahuah’s law.
Colossians 3:19 – Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.
A controlling and abusive husband is a wrong doer.
Colossians 3:25 – But he that doeth wrong shall receive for the wrong which he hath done: and there is no respect of persons.
A wife leaving is an ordinance of Yahuah.
2 Corinthians 11:33 – And through a window in a basket was I let down by the wall, and escaped his hands.
The wife who walks out is not held liable for walking out, but the responsibility is fully put on the head of household and even the leaders of the church who she sought help from and no help was found.
1 Samuel 20:22 – But if I say thus unto the young man, Behold, the arrows are beyond thee; go thy way: for the Lord hath sent thee away.
Her unbelieving has nothing to do with her belief in Yahuah, but her unbelieving is that of her covers: her husband will not obey Yahuah and all the leaders she sought failed to uphold Scripture.
1 Corinthians 7:15 – But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace.
The man who has the belief that a wife is to be submissive to his disobedience, deceitfulness and dishonor in the way he mistreats and misuses his wife is not a true believer.
1 Timothy 3:5 – For if a man know not how to rule his own house, how shall he take care of the church of God?
There is to be provision and protection for women and children. Yet, the covers in Yahuah’s order fail them. With no spiritual covering, they are now considered orphans and widows.
Revelation 3:1 – To the angel of the church in Sardis write: He who has the seven Spirits of God and the seven stars, says this: ‘I know your deeds, that you have a name that you are alive, but you are dead.
Does anyone hear her cries and take the matter seriously?
James 1:27 – Pure religion and undefiled before God and the Father is this, To visit the fatherless and widows in their affliction, and to keep himself unspotted from the world.
Scripture clearly states how to handle hypocritical believers. Yet, the leaders even fail to uphold and walk in the ordinances of Yahuah’s law in dealing with abusive situations. A neutral stance only allows the abuse to worsen.
1 Corinthians 5:9-13 – 9 I wrote unto you in an epistle not to company with fornicators:
10 Yet not altogether with the fornicators of this world, or with the covetous, or extortioners, or with idolaters; for then must ye needs go out of the world.
11 But now I have written unto you not to keep company, if any man that is called a brother be a fornicator, or covetous, or an idolator, or a railer, or a drunkard, or an extortioner; with such an one no not to eat.
12 For what have I to do to judge them also that are without? do not ye judge them that are within?
13 But them that are without God judgeth. Therefore put away from among yourselves that wicked person.
There is a deception of men who proclaim to be true believers. They seek their own at the cost of a woman and child’s livelihood. This has been a hidden agenda to keep them in bondage, and twist their faith into a false belief. These brood vipers hiss lies to the woman and children to believe because of their faith, they must stay in an abusive and life threatening situation.
Meanwhile, leaders fail to obey the word of God to provide and protect them. The majority of husbands and leaders blame and put all of the responsibility of obedience on the woman and children alone, neglecting to hold the husband fully accountable for his disobedience.
Matthew 23:33, 37-38 – 33 Ye serpents, ye generation of vipers, how can ye escape the damnation of hell?
37 O Jerusalem, Jerusalem, thou that killest the prophets, and stonest them which are sent unto thee, how often would I have gathered thy children together, even as a hen gathereth her chickens under her wings, and ye would not!
38 Behold, your house is left unto you desolate.
Jeremiah 23:1-6 – Woe be unto the pastors that destroy and scatter the sheep of my pasture! saith the Lord.
2 Therefore thus saith the Lord God of Israel against the pastors that feed my people; Ye have scattered my flock, and driven them away, and have not visited them: behold, I will visit upon you the evil of your doings, saith the Lord.
3 And I will gather the remnant of my flock out of all countries whither I have driven them, and will bring them again to their folds; and they shall be fruitful and increase.
4 And I will set up shepherds over them which shall feed them: and they shall fear no more, nor be dismayed, neither shall they be lacking, saith the Lord.
5 Behold, the days come, saith the Lord, that I will raise unto David a righteous Branch, and a King shall reign and prosper, and shall execute judgment and justice in the earth.
6 In his days Judah shall be saved, and Israel shall dwell safely: and this is his name whereby he shall be called, The Lord Our Righteousness.